I think we are all a little emotional about this subject but I think we can all agree that this is a terrible tragedy and that we need to wrap our hearts around this family and this community and help to make this situation as bearable as possible without all the fighting and bickering.
What Outspokenjerk didn't understand was this thread and this forum was part of the eyes and ears yesterday with the information because the news media wasn't even on the ball about it. There were a few conversations that were proven incorrect (the aunt/nephew thought to be the mother in law/son) etc, but for the most part -- a lot of the conversation was right on target and I appreciate everyone that was involved because that helped to keep people away from the scene trying to get inforamtion etc...no one was ugly in their comments or disrespectful from what I recall -- unless it was after 2 when I left for a while...
I think our hearts were in the right place and that we wanted to know what happened and that we wanted to understand what happened...there are no words to describe this situation...
Julie -- outspoken has been here a while and he isn't always so sharp in his words and I don't think that his first post was intended to be ugly -- I think it was to just remind everyone how rumors can get distorted...at the same time OutspokenJerk -- I don't think that calling people names because they don't agree with your post is a little to far and that got ugly and I hate to see that...both of you have been assets to this forum...take a step back and breathe and let's get back on the same page of supporting this community and this family...