Smokey, my Friend,
When a "professing Roman Catholic" -- even one who does not go to mass -- wishes that I would drop dead; naturally I want to know if he learned that in his Roman Catholic catechism. Makes sense to me!
But, then, for a Roman Catholic who takes the Sacrament of Reconciliation -- while refusing to be reconciled with me, a fellow man -- well, most anything might not make sense that that person.
Sorry if what I write confuses you.
Bless your little confused heart!
Bill