From what my ex-BIL has told me, my EX is refusing to help with the wedding. I've also learned that my ex-MIL actually ADORES the guy my daughter wants to marry and appears more like her 'old self' in his company. But hey...she adored ME, too!
From what my ex-BIL tells me, my daughter and her new husband will reside in Arkansas, 1 state and several hours away from her mom, making it more difficult to exert any control over her.