Crusty, my Friend,
ARE YOU A YANKEE? My Friend, "Bless your heart!" is as Southern as cornbread, fried okra, fried green tomatoes, and sweet tea! Almost as Southern as SEC football!
Sounds like you are one those Yankees who would cheer for Notre Dame, Ohio, or Michigan instead of BAMA.
"Bless your heart" is as Southern as my mom's banana pudding -- and that offends you? Why, "bless your heart" -- y'all probably even think Obama is a real president. Boy, where do y'all live?
Actually depending on how you personally interpret the bible, calling someone a fool, even in a low key way is saying they don't know God or any of His laws. You seem to have no problem doing this, but it's ignoring You're sins. Who say's it's your job to judge people? I think you actually need to read the bible some more instead of just believing what your minister says.
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Yankees, ND fans, Ohio State and Michigan fans can be added to Gray's list of people who are just plain wrong in their beliefs. God save anyone who thinks differently then gray does. He must have an interesting cast of characters as friends.