for the sake of argument, let us stipulate that we are discussing a married couple of one hetrosexual male and one hetrosexual female.
they are a normal healthy adult couple, eager and curious and the physical side of their marriage.
According to the bible, is there anything they are disallowed or forbidden to do in the bed room? (further stipulating that they are both open minded and willing to try anything once if it might make their partner happy.)
i've acctually met women in my 40 odd years that told me that women wern't supposed to enjoy sex. it was only for procreation, and if a woman got anything out of it it mean the devil had touched her soul.
(i'm not making this up. it was two women, sisters, that i worked with for a time. they scared me. there were others, but thes two were worst case.)
the only acceptable position was standard man on top missionary. anything else was satan's handiwork. when i started to ask them about more oral options, they told me i was sick and disgusting, and never spoke to me again. they also didn't wear make up, didn't cut their hair, even to trim and shape it, and always wore dresses or skirts. they also smelled slightly odd and were as pretty as roadkill, but that's not really relevent. i don't know if they were married, nor do i know what flavor of fundy nutters they were.
i've also talked to a church of christ sunday school class leader who told all of us that day that as long as the couple was married, and as long as both people were in full agreement, then absoloutly nothing the couple could imagine was off limits. he told us god invented sex and make it fun to help populate the world, to help us grow closer as a couple and because he loved us and wanted us to be happy.
i kinda liked him. i didn't see him again after that class. at all. i never saw him in that church again.
curious.
and i've met and talked to people who believe every possible option in between those two extremes....
so...
what's everyone think? with the previous stipulations enacted, are there limits on bedroom antics? or is it purly a free for all, all bets are off event?
and can you quote a line or two from whatever scripture you follow that you base your belief on, if applicable, so we can try and follow your reasoning?
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