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Just had a conversation with a male friend of mine. Made me think of something. I, as many of the other forum girls were I'm sure, was raised to be modest and "decent" (I didn't say it took, I just said I was raised that way) so that men would respect me... right?

So how come men just LOOOOOOVE loose women? Is it because they think if everybody gets lucky with her, maybe they have a shot?

If a "good" woman ever dares criticize a hussy, their men will be the first to jump in to defend the hussy, usually with a line like "You're just jealous".

Did our mothers teach us wrong? Did we just not "get" the between the lines truth? What??????
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Usually loose women as you put it, have a whole lot of experience handling different... errr....sizes..errrr...things....errr....so they can say oh! I've never seen anything like that before...with a straight face...
and you know how us guys just love to stand out from the other dudes...

I was at a zoo one time and had to go to the restroom real bad...So! when nobody was looking I crawled into the elephant pen and ran to a get behind a tree..I was standing there when a elephant walked up too me..and ask me...Can you breath through that thing?
Men love loose women because they are loose women! I really don't know more to answer than that, as I'm not a man nor a loose woman- And I won't ever Be either so, I'm a bit clueless.

I can only assume it's because either the loose woman is very beautiful, or has big um, pompom's. Perhaps sometimes it's desperation.

The reason us good girls never understand this kind of thing, is because we don't have to rely on our 'wiles' to be attractive.

A skank may get a good guy, every few months, but us self respecting ladies find a good guy and are able to KEEP them. We give more than just pillow talk. Big Grin Wink

~Amanda
ROFLMAO Vick..

Reflecting, not always true. I dated a guy that went to Church religiously, prayed, read the Bible, and really seemed to be a great guy. Shortly thereafter, I found out he was a drug head, was into all kinds of sleazy things, and had two very different sides to him.

Needless to say, I dropped him like a ton of bricks.

I met my husband in a bar, at karaoke. He's the best guy I've ever known. Treats me like a princess, does the dishes, helps me around the house, And supports me in all that I do. Granted- he is on the Stud side (I'm biased Razzer ) but by your theory there, that would be an impossibility to find at such a place. xD

Thing is, it's not really so much about where you meet a person anyway. It definitely doesn't dictate a person's character at all. Big Grin

Although, maybe in /some/ places, it might play into their character a little bit.- Like say, a Street Corner xD

~Amanda
Actually, I met a guy in a bookstore just last week. He was kinda spreading it around, but when he saw I was the youngest, thinnest woman in the store, he started talking to me. Told me about his "ladyfriends" and the fun time he had just had flying down to the Ala/LSU game and getting drunk with some people he never saw before but who now felt like lifelong friends.

Needless to say I thought he must have been looking for the Harley Shop and came into the bookstore by mistake. I thought all the way home "why can't I meet a guy like my ex?" Rounded the curve onto Tennsssee St. and who do I meet in his ugly Jeep? God, I was just joking.
Wow! Well uh..just on the off chance that one of you might be one of my...uh...my...uh...anyways...oh well...here goes...

Please come back honey! I miss you! Bad! I've changed my ways! Honestly! She meant nothing! I was stupid! Or drunk! But I've quit drinking! I quit smoking that stuff too! I quit sniffing glue also! I promise! I love you! Did I mention that I was stupid?

Wink
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Originally posted by Reflecting One of the voices i:
What about alll you "good Girls" that want a tatoo ridden, Harley driving ,rough ,marlboro man type.........then catch something AJAX wont take off?
The man or woman you want will be in a place they should be...want a Christain guy...go to church, want an intellectual, go to the library, want a stud,go to the bars....


Wow, I must be quite a catch! Christain, intellectual,Harley rider who also enjoys a good bar, wonder why my luck is so bad?
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So how come men just LOOOOOOVE loose women? Is it because they think if everybody gets lucky with her, maybe they have a shot?


IMO, the average man ( i use the word average as an escape clause for you guys that might disagree with this) goes after loose, trashy women in order to fulfill a fantasy (subconscious or conscious) of being such a wonderful stud they the hooker is so impressed she gives it to him for free.
Then marrying the tramp makes him feel like the hero that rescues the damsel in distress.

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If a "good" woman ever dares criticize a hussy, their men will be the first to jump in to defend the hussy, usually with a line like "You're just jealous".


....All hookers have hearts of gold type of thing....good women are threatened by that Roll Eyes
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Originally posted by Reflecting One of the voices i:
What about alll you "good Girls" that want a tatoo ridden, Harley driving ,rough ,marlboro man type.........then catch something AJAX wont take off?


it's a female version of the male "damsel in distress" and "hooker with a heart of gold" theory.....the woman thinks she'll be the one special enough to get through to the good, loving person hiding inside.
I always fine that the man that goes for the loose women, the strippers, the easy catches weather she is good looking for ugly are the types that have control issues. The tend to abuse them mentally and/or physically. And the women are too stupid enough to allow it.

I for one likes the so called career woman, you know the type, the one that likes to dress conservative, the one that is and acts smart(not smarta--) and the one that knows what she wants but not afraid to go for it. And able to keep the respect and self-esteem.

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