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Originally posted by AllTalk40:
Oh, and Kitten...
I just noticed your rude post. If I may refer you to my post above to jamofpearls, this "lame" cigar smoker would happily agree to move or put it out if I knew it was offending you. The thing is...you didn't say anything and I'm not very good at reading your mind...especially when i'm paying absolutely no attention to you whatsoever and enjoying the band, food, and conversation with friends. Cigarette smoke is offensive to me, but if it's bad enough, I'll usually just move or deal with it. Why, you ask? Because it's a BAR and the upstairs portion is a SMOKING SECTION. Before you judge a book by it's cover next time and talk about how "lame" the "cigar guys" are, approach me in a respectful manner and maybe you'll meet one of the most respectful gentlemen you've ever met.
JR
Noted and handled well. True we could just move, however we had a table and we were eating (yes in the smoking section, I understand that). We did move soon after that. (We couldn't until paying out our tab).
Trust me I'm usually the last one to complain about smoke in a bar - I don't smoke but that's what a bar is for. Where I used to live there are not bars or establishments that allow smoking indoors and while I welcome this because I don't smell like a cigarette/cigar when I leave the bar, I don't really think it's fair to the hard working men and women that love nothing more than to enjoy a stiff drink and a cigarette/cigar.
This is just a place to voice your opinion, and while going on for comedic purposes, I'm sorry if I upset you. Sure I could have asked you to put it out but, that's sort of rude too. (You had the right, you paid for the cigar, and I was in the smoking section)
We sat in smoking to allow our friend that smoke to do so. I'm not a smoker, never have been, never will be, but I'm rather understanding to my friends that smoke more often than not.
Smoke on - just don't expect the right response every time, a few harmless jabs on a message board are better than someone giving you grief at you or causing commotion when you're trying to relax in a bar.
I've NEVER been a fan of cigars, my father smokes them and I pitched a fit at our home every time (when I lived there)... Nothing personal!