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Q: Father John, I was just listening to a radio show about redemptive suffering – they were saying that our suffering can have value if we “offer it up.” Is there any more to this (uniting our sufferings to Jesus’) than just saying the words?

A: The Mystery of Merit

Merit is the right to a reward. Someone who gains merit deserves a reward from others; they have earned something of value through their own efforts; someone else owes them a recompense as a result of what they have done. A worker merits his wages; a football player whose performance launches his team to victory merits recognition as the most valuable player; soldiers who risk their lives for their country merit respect, and also social security when their time of active duty is up.

Jesus spoke often about merit. In his Sermon on the Mount he encourages us to look forward to the reward that will be great in heaven. In his parables about the final judgment he draws a direct correlation between how we behave here on earth and the reward that we will receive in eternity. Our modern sensibilities, influenced by a Kantian worldview, are disturbed by the thought of doing what is right in order to receive a reward. Jesus had no such qualms: “Get yourselves purses that do not wear out, treasure that will not fail you, in heaven where no thief can reach it and no moth destroy it” (Luke 12:33).

In short, as Christians, our prayers, actions, and sacrifices serve as conduits, in a sense, of God’s grace. And it is God’s grace that redeems fallen humanity,, rolls back the forces of evil, enlightens sin-darkened hearts, restores hope to those in despair, fills us with joy, wisdom, and strength… God’s Kingdom flourishes, in individuals, families, parishes, and societies, when the flow of grace is abundant. To increase our merits is to do our part to increase the flow of God’s grace in, through, and around us.

Problem and Solution

Now for the tricky part. On our own, we are absolutely incapable of obtaining supernatural merits. This is because we are fallen, sinful human beings. An unplugged lamp won’t give off any light, no matter how many times you turn the switch. Similarly, original sin unplugged our souls from the source of grace – God himself. When Jesus became man and offered himself in atonement for our sins, he plugged human nature back in to God, so to speak. This was the redemption. And so, anyone who is united to Christ through faith and the sacraments is now once again connected to the source of grace – they are living in the state of grace. Only in Christ, then, can we merit: “I am the vine, you are the branches. Whoever remains in me, with me in him, bears fruit in plenty; for cut off from me you can do nothing” (John 15:5).

But that’s the amazing thing: in Christ, we can merit. God has consciously chosen to give us the possibility of making a difference in his Kingdom. We are not just along for the ride. What we do and how we choose to live our ordinary lives can actually increase the flow of grace in the world, spreading Christ’s Kingdom and storing up treasure for us in heaven. Jesus has not only saved us from ****ation, but he has given us the possibility of becoming active, meritorious collaborators in the work of redemption. Not because we deserve it, but simply because he generously wanted to give us that possibility: he wanted our lives to have real meaning, our actions and decisions to have eternal repercussions. His love makes us friends and collaborators, not just his robots or spiritual trophies.

Though it may seem obvious, we should mention that no one can merit the initial grace of conversion for themselves. The unplugged lamp can’t plug itself in, though once plugged it really is the lamp that shines. A misunderstanding of this point helped fuel the fire of dissention that sparked so many painful divisions among Christians at the time of the Protestant Reformation. We cannot save or redeem ourselves; we need a Savior, a Redeemer: Christ. But on the other hand, once we have accepted Christ’s gift of grace, that very gift enables us to merit other graces for ourselves and for the Church. This is a marvelous, wonderful, and underemphasized part of the Good News!

Fr John Bartunek, LC

consider this warning Paul gave: "See then the kindness and the severity of God: severity toward those who have fallen, but God’s kindness to you, provided you continue in his kindness; otherwise you too will be cut off" (Rom. 11:22)

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On redemptive suffering.
I worked hospice/palliative care for a long time.
I cannot tell you how often a suffering person (on the brink of death) would proclaim the incredible moment, where they offered and joined their suffering with our Lord.
One man, in particular, I will never forget, told me (moments before he died) that he was on the Cross with Jesus, and Jesus was holding his hand. POWERFUL stuff!
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Originally posted by vplee123:
On redemptive suffering.
I worked hospice/palliative care for a long time.
I cannot tell you how often a suffering person (on the brink of death) would proclaim the incredible moment, where they offered and joined their suffering with our Lord.
One man, in particular, I will never forget, told me (moments before he died) that he was on the Cross with Jesus, and Jesus was holding his hand. POWERFUL stuff!



Vp,

What a beautiful soul that man has.... he is with Jesus now, embraced by God, seeing the Beatific vision.
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Originally posted by vplee123:
On redemptive suffering.
I worked hospice/palliative care for a long time.
I cannot tell you how often a suffering person (on the brink of death) would proclaim the incredible moment, where they offered and joined their suffering with our Lord.
One man, in particular, I will never forget, told me (moments before he died) that he was on the Cross with Jesus, and Jesus was holding his hand. POWERFUL stuff!
Powerful drugs.
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so, the more our life sucks, - the more we suffer - the closer we are to god?

what?


Nagel...it is often in our darkest moments that we are brought closer to God.
Don't you feel that you pray more when things are "wrong"? When everything is going along great, do we stop and pray often? Maybe...I can't speak for everyone. But I can say that it is in my darkest hours that I cry out to Him, and He draws me close.
Our imitation of Him and our gifts to Him, though they are nothing without His Sacrifice, build up the Body of Christ if they are joined to His sufferings:

I Corinthians 12:26
And if one member suffer any thing, all the members suffer with it: or if one member glory, all the members rejoice with it.

Colossians 1:23b-24
...whereof I Paul am made a minister. Who now rejoice in my sufferings for you and fill up those things that are wanting of the sufferings of Christ, in my flesh, for His body, which is the church:

Now, is Paul saying that Christ's sufferings and Sacrifice weren't enough? Is he "taking away from Christ" by saying that we are to "fill up" those things that are "wanting" in His sufferings? No, of course not. He is saying, though, that we are One Body, that we co-operate with God in profound ways ( I Corinthians 3:9 "For we are God's coadjutors [co-workers, assistants]..."), and that, in an inscrutable way, our sufferings benefit one another. We actually help Jesus in His redemption of the world by giving to Him our sufferings to build up the Body of Christ.
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Originally posted by vplee123:
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so, the more our life sucks, - the more we suffer - the closer we are to god?

what?


Nagel...it is often in our darkest moments that we are brought closer to God.
Don't you feel that you pray more when things are "wrong"? When everything is going along great, do we stop and pray often? Maybe...I can't speak for everyone. But I can say that it is in my darkest hours that I cry out to Him, and He draws me close.


no, sorry... not here.
that seems to me a sort of 'fair-weather friend' variety of faith...
we ignore him when things are good, and pray for blessings when things are bad?

nah. i pray for the same thing, regardless.

that whole idea of 'thy will be done', ya know? i accept that what he needs to happen might not be even close to what i want to happen.

the only thing i add is typically asking for strength and understanding to accept the things i don't want to happen Smiler
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that seems to me a sort of 'fair-weather friend' variety of faith...
we ignore him when things are good, and pray for blessings when things are bad?


I understand what you're saying. I guess HoD explained things better- it's about offering up our suffering.
But, I will perfectly be honest and tell you that I pray a heck of a lot more when I have a problem. /shrug...sad but true.
Tell God everything.
I talk to Him through out the day ... everyday.
I also have a journal, that I write notes to Him in. Even though God knows what I need before I do, and He understands the circumstances of my life better than I do,i feel joy and comfort when I'm in constant communication with Jesus. I discuss the insignificant parts of my day, to the most painful. Waking up in the middle of the night to simply roll over, I will speak to Him in that moment too.

I recommend St. Teresa of Avila's book, The Interior Castle.

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