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Originally posted by GoFish:
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Originally posted by dogsoldier0513:
I hope to God, you never experience the pain this dad has felt.
Who the hell are you to assume I haven't? And you think you got bad? At this very moment, I am assisting a woman who's young son was MURDERED recently. I have another client who's son will killed in a car accident two years ago and she is still a walking zombie.
Look, you've got some very deep, disturbing issues that you need help with. These good folks on this board are too nice to tell you that but it seems to be true. I'm not saying you are disturbed - I don't know you. I'm not saying the issues are your fault, your ex's, your daughter's or anyones else's. You have revealed a few person issues since I've been hanging around here and I think you are a walking time bomb.
When I stated "silly" earlier, it was just a figure of speech. I meant no offense, promise. But turning to us forum morons ("forons") for the serious help you need? Now THAT'S really silly.
So, you can keep whining about your personal issues or seek professional help. That is the best advice you will ever receive. PM me for a name and phone number of someone who really can help.
Or not.
GoFish, just because you have "assisted" a couple of people, who have heartaches, does not mean that you have any idea of what DS is experiencing. I cannot imagine how you could be any help to anyone. You seem to be cold, uncaring, indifferent, and cynical. I think you would probably be one of the last places I would turn for help, or advice. You also seem to be hateful and judgemental.
Why would you tell DS that he has some deep, disturbing issues that he needs help with? Sherlock, I don't mean to shoot you down here, but, I think he worked that out for himself. As far as him whinning about personal issues, I don't hear him whinning. He is discussing an issue that is near and dear to his heart. I don't think that he has any notion that we are going to solve this issue for him. I can tell you that he can be made to feel better about the situation, just by knowing that other people have been through similar situations, and/or they just simply care that he has to endure.
As far as professional help, that may be an option for DS. Then again, if he gets into a situation with a pro with your attitude and temperment, I don't really see where they would be of any help, regardless of whatever is hanging in a frame on their wall.
I for one, do not appreciate you calling me a forum moron. You know nothing of me. You go as far as to say he is a walking time bomb. That is amazing that you can know so much about DS, just from what you have read here.
This may seriously be a case of "...heal thy self". You maybe could really benefit from some professional counseling. I think you said you had a name and a number. I know that you didn't ask for help/advice, didn't cost you a dime. Who knows, you may thank me one day. Hey, if it doesn't help anything, but to make you a little sweeter, it will have been worth it.
Btw, you wouldn't, by any chance, have issues with your mother, would you?